Men cheat more often than women, but women cheat too..
Nothing feels worse than being cheated on by your significant other when you’re in a relationship. If you doubt your partner’s fidelity, it’s probably best you have a conversation with them, as soon as possible, expressing all your doubts.
Contrary if you are unable to directly ask your partner (about your doubts)… Or if you are sure that she would definitely lie.. it’s then, the things start to get complicated.
In fact, it’s the time when you need to puzzle out the things all by yourselves. Moreover, It’s when you need to observe the subtle subconscious signs she is giving out each day, even without knowing herself.
So, What are the signs of guilt in a woman after cheating? Are there any physical signs? What about her guilty conscience now, after she cheated?
Listed below are a handful of signs that give away if your girlfriend/wife has cheated on you which left her feeling guilty now–
13 Signs she cheated and feels Guilty Now (Based on Psychology):
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1. She tries to find ways around her guilt by accusing you of cheating:
She is projecting. If she is accusing you of sleeping with other women out of the blue, it is her way of overcompensating. She wants you to know that she values honesty and loyalty, so you don’t suspect her of cheating.
2. She’s not keen on having sex anymore:
Correction, she is not keen on having sex with you anymore. If your partner suddenly seems more distant and constantly keeps refusing to have sex with you. She is probably having her fill from someone else. Moreover, her guilt of cheating on you strongly acts as a barrier for having a happy sex life with you.
3. She starts coming home late from work often:
The coming-home-late-from-work is a classic sign that indicates your partner is cheating/has cheated on you. Sure, she can be late sometimes, but if this turns into more of a routine – you may have a reason for concern.
It’s nothing but a sign of a lack of interest to spend time with you. So, it’s a simple formula altogether – The More Guilt she has = The Lesser intention she will have to spend time with you
4. She doesn’t answer some calls in your presence:
Picture this – your girlfriend’s phone is on the table and it starts ringing. She snatches it off the table, reads the name/number on the screen and immediately silences her phone. What does it tell you? She is trying to hide someone/something from you.
5. Unexpected Gifts for you to cover up her guilt:
Is she giving you unexpected gifts all of a sudden? Is she offering you something in spite of the fact that she doesn’t have the habit of doing so? Then Yes, it could be a smoking gun. Often when a person feels excessive guilt, he/she try to compensate their guilt which some random stuff like gifts. (Just like an abandoned child is given excessive luxuries).
So, why is your girl feeling excessive guilt? Has she done something wrong? Maybe some kind of cheating. Who knows?
6. She keeps picking fights with you:
She is probably hoping that you will realize by yourself that there is no point sticking around in the relationship and leave her. Simply, It is her way of making you feel that the relationship has already broken off. So, Later, she won’t have to tell you the truth and break your heart in the process.
7. Creates Drama when you question her something deep:
This is one of the common signs you’ll see in a woman who cheats her partner. when your woman cheats you, she tries to act as much normal as possible. She neither wants you to find out the truth nor her heavy emotions of guilt. So when you ask her something deep like “why are you using your phone too much” or “where did you go that night” it directly triggers her feelings of guilt.
That’s it, her emotions burst out making her cry and creating a way lot of drama. At times it is also a woman’s way, to escape the situation so that her guilt is not visible to you at any cost.
8. She encourages you to pursue your interests/spend more time with your friends:
Before, she’d keep nagging you that you do not spend enough time with her. Now, she wants you to call your friends and go out socializing with them. Seem familiar? It’s not a good news. In fact, it’s an indirect way of healing her guilt, as it creates a situation where you too will move with many women out there.
9. She fumbles when she has to tell you about her day:
If she’s cheating on you, she needs an alibi. She needs time to prepare for this alibi. If you come back home from work and ask her about her day and she stutters to tell you – she was probably up to something she shouldn’t have.
And Yes. As her Guilt tortures her each second, it almost becomes hard for her to tell you the same old lies. And obviously, words won’t come out that easy.
10. Guilt makes her spend less time with you:
If she’s cheating on you, she’s spending this time with the person she’s having her affair with. If she has already cheated on you, she feels guilty and would like to avoid your company until she comes to terms with how to behave in your presence.
11. She is very concerned about her privacy all of a sudden:
She won’t let you use her phone or access her social media account. Reason for concern? Most definitely. What if you find evidence of her infidelity in her Gallery or Call log?
12. Her expressions and words seem a bit different when saying I Love you:
Saying ‘I love you’ with a true heart is completely different when compared to saying ‘I love you’ with a guilt-filled heart. So say her ‘I love you’ and see how she reacts. If she is not immediately ready to say ‘I love you too’, or if she fumbles a bit saying it back, it can be a strong smoking gun again.
13. She would cut off the topic/become silent when you talk about other women who cheated:
Although this is a bit difficult to discuss with your partner, just try it, and you’ll see some immediate results. Start off something like, “I saw a news this morning…” Or “My old friend broke up recently, because her partner…”. However, you start, deeply discuss about some woman cheating on her man ruthlessly.
Now time to time, see her reactions/emotions closely. If she suddenly cuts off the topic/ becomes silent all of sudden, chances are that she cheated you and is feeling guilty now.
You’ll see these additional signs if she is still continuing to cheat on you:
1. She’s dressing up more:
Does her makeup routine take more time than usual? Is she dressing up fashionably just to go run an “errand”? She is clearly trying to impress somebody. That somebody is not you. It’s time for you to sit up and take notice.
2. She is suddenly spending an awful amount of time on the phone:
If you’re out with your girlfriend and she is “phubbing” you, it’s time you realize there’s somebody more important in her life now. Another telltale sign is if her face lights up every time she reads a message. The person on the other end may not be one of her regular girlfriends.
3. She is unreachable for long durations:
If you’re unable to reach her on her phone for hours, you should definitely worry. She is ignoring you, so she doesn’t have to lie to you.
4. She keeps checking up on your where you are:
If she has her squeeze over or is headed to his place, she doesn’t want you hanging about. She is probably doing this to keep up-to-date with your whereabouts, so she doesn’t have to worry about being caught.
5. She develops new interests:
Of course, this doesn’t have to mean that she is cheating on you. But usually, when you meet new people and start spending a lot of time with them, their interests rub off on you. Same with the words you choose to use.
So, from today, watch out for these warning signs. If your girlfriend/wife indulges in most of these – you’re probably has been cheated by your woman, who has been expressing her guilt later on now.
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