Narcissists are people who feel that they are superior to everyone in this world.
So obviously, a relationship with such a kind of person is even more difficult. Unlike normal people, when a narcissist dumped you, it becomes so devastating that they make you feel worse and useless.
So what happens if you ignore such a narcissist who dumped you?
Will they feel confused? Will he/she come back? or Will they completely don’t care about you?
In this article, We’ll reveal to you the complete personality of the narcissist. How they behave, how they think, and finally what happens when you ignore a narcissist who dumped you.
First of all, how does a Narcissist think about relationships?
See, you may have already seen many websites that bombard you with some absolute nonsense, which are in no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
If you are reading this article, most probably you already know who a narcissist is. As we all know, Narcissists tend to calculate the value of all the things and people they meet. The problem is that they apply this even to relationships. Read Do Narcissists enjoy kissing? Why do they feel a weird aversion?
They always calculate the value of everything, as they want all the high-value things and people to feed their egos. They feel they are the most superior creatures living and thus feel that only high people and things can match them.
So coming to the main point. How a narcissist sees a relationship is completely different from what others see. According to their view, a partner is the one who increases their value and standard. This is the reason why a narcissist unknowingly gets attracted to good looking, high status, highly popular people.
Why does a Narcissist dump you?
Though it may seem materialistic, a narcissist may dump you because of three reasons.
- They feel that you are no longer that charismatic, popular person.
- You attacked his/her ego and made them feel less.
- They found another partner who has higher looks and higher status than you. Read Does he still think about me after breakup? 9 Signs he definitely does
What does a Narcissist expect after dumping you?
In general, a narcissist tends to believe that he is the one who was having the upper hand in the relationship. So this is exactly what a narcissist expects when they dump you..
- You would feel completely devastated as he/she has dumped you suddenly.
- You would start missing them and try contacting them.
- You would apologize and even cry for them to get back into the relationship.
- On the other side, the narcissist plans to simply ignore you, while boasting to others that you still love and chase them so much.
If you read a narcissist’s mind, this is what you will find out. If not why do you think narcissists generally dump a person all of a sudden unexpectedly. Read 5 Reasons why do narcissist come back when your strong again?
What Happens When You Ignore a Narcissist Who Dumped You?
As I explained above, a narcissist will be expecting such a kind of response from you. But if you start ignoring them, he gets confused completely, and this is what happens.
1. They may delete your number and even block you:
Whenever a narcissist feels ignored the first thing he thinks to plan is revenge. Thus they immediately start reacting and thus may delete your number and block you on all social networks.
See this true story across the forums..
My narc ex just blocked me last night. Two weeks ago, I initiated No Contact. He would not leave me alone and was begging me. I caved two days ago… I answered his text. Just to tell him goodbye again. I tried to call and then he blocked me.
2. They start feeling less:
The moment you start ignoring, the narcissist starts to feel less. A narcissist can’t tolerate someone ignoring them and your silent treatment straightly affects his/her self-confidence. You can clearly observe the change in their behavior too. He/she talks less, they become less charismatic, and many more.
3. They get angry as to why you are not caring:
When a narcissist is attacked, their biggest response is anger. They get so irritated as to why you are not caring, at all. They may even plan to spread bad rumors about you. In simple, you become their biggest enemy. Thus they try to do whatever they can, just to get your attention and affect you.
Thus once you get affected, he/she will start feeling good. Though this may seem dangerous this is what happens when a narcissist gets angry with you. Read Do Narcissists come back after silent treatment? (Based on Psychology)
4. They may start stalking you:
Listen to this another story on forums:
He broke up with me. We haven’t talked in days but i see him online a lot on an app we used to talk on. I know he only talked to me on that one. And whenever i was mad at him and not talking,he d always go online to see if i’m online and log off withing a second. He’s doing that again. Monitoring me but not talking. Just logging off immediately. What is going on?
In general Narcissists are great stalkers. They subconsciously expect that you shouldn’t be happy without them. So if you start being happy talking to others, they may get irritated. This is the reason they generally stalk to know what you are doing now, after the breakup. They even stalk you online and observe your posts just to check why you are ignoring him.
5. They may start finding a new relationship just to pose before you:
This is another spell of a narcissist just to attack you more. When you start ignoring a narcissistic ex, they assume that you are happy without him. So all he/she now wants to show you is that they are much happier without you. Read 7 Striking signs that he loves the other woman
So there are chances that they may try to find another partner who is more popular and beautiful than you. Now their main motto becomes to show you that they are more happier with their new partner, than with you.
But believe me, if you start doing the same, he/she is going to get collapsed. This is the most insane form of hurting the narcissist as they can’t ever bear one thing… ‘They being replaced’.
Imagine, what if you open the mobile, there comes a message “I MISS YOU, I NEED YOU” from your narcissist ex?
What if he starts chasing you, pleading you even in front of all your friends?
This is what happens..
When you strongly trigger the narcissist’s right side brain, the emotional brain. Yes, You are just a step away from using the 3 secret psychological loopholes that make you narcissist ex to come crawling back to you.
So Here is what to do..
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