Last Updated on January 16, 2021 by Team CrazyJackz
You both were the perfect couple..
You loved her so much.
Everything seemed perfectly alright..
Until one day, when you suddenly yelled at her on the spur of the moment. That’s it, She suddenly broke down and started crying.
“I yelled at my girlfriend and made her cry.” This is what many men feel bad about and don’t know what to do next?
So In this article, I’ll tell you what to do and what not to do when you hurt your girl so deeply.
What should I do when I yelled and made her cry?
See, you may have already seen many websites that bombard you with some absolute nonsense, which are in no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
You need to Remember “she cried”:
If an unknown person scolds your girlfriend… will she cry? No, right? So why did she started crying when YOU yelled at her?
When a girl cried for you, then it is a clear sign that she treats you so special. In simple, you mean the world to her. So whenever you treat her badly, she feels completely hurt and her world seems to be shattered. That is why tears started coming down her eyes, within no time.
You need to remember this one point, in order to calm down your ego and get back to her.
The most important thing you need to do when you made her cry:
If you are reading this article, then most probably the bad incident has already taken place. So if the incident has happened in the past few hours or just a day before, then the first thing you need to do is “companionship”
Do you know, a person becomes psychologically vulnerable when he/she is depressed. If not why do you think you get a series of bad thoughts when you are depressed?
On the other hand, women are much more vulnerable when they are depressed. So, this is the time when you shouldn’t leave her at any cost. No matter how angry you are just don’t leave her alone.
Try not to leave her and be beside her, if possible. Thus even though you yelled, she subconsciously understands that you will be there for her even in troubles. Even if you did not talk, just be present near her and give her some companionship.
If you are her entire world, by leaving her alone, you will now only become 90% of her world. This decreases more and more, each time you leave her alone when depressed. So sit beside her, move beside her, and don’t leave her alone.
Make her understand that your words are just emotions at that moment:
In general, more than the emotion it’s the words that you yell out, that make your woman cry. When an argument happens, you may yell something harsh. In that anger burst, you say whatever comes to your mind like “you are always like this” “I don’t want to be with you” etc etc. This is where she gets devastated.
A woman tends to overthink these words again and again until she breaks down. So when such an incident happens.. all you need to is make her understand, is the reality of your words.
Completely assure her that those are just emotional words at the spur of that moment and no way has any meaning.
For example “If you yelled her to leave you”, you can crack a joke that you won’t leave her even if she does.
So such an assurance can make her feel safe and stops her over thinking about the words you yelled.
When she becomes normal… Show some love :
How bad she may have been hurt, she becomes normal after a few hours. This is the time when you need to show her some love. Crack a joke, make her remember some cute thing that happened between you both, hug her tightly and kiss her on the cheeks.
Thus by showing her love, you are clearing all the sadness, anger, and all the broken pieces in her mind. This is what pushes your relationship to a higher level making it much stronger.
Finally, Make a promise to yourself:
If this is the first time you yelled at her, it’s fine. But if this is happening, again and again, you need to correct yourself.
Personally, I have seen a number of cases, where a girl who used to cry again and again tend to change over time. As days pass by, she will try to get more and more detached from you and won’t take your anger anymore.
As I have already mentioned in the article..
If she cried when you yelled at her, this clearly indicates that you mean the whole world to her. As this continues, you will no longer be her whole world but only a small part.
So Take a promise.. Don’t make her cry again and again until she no longer cares about you..