A relationship with a narcissist is a bumpy ride of feelings.
On the other hand, moving away from the narcissist and getting rid of him is even more complex and hard.
It involves a strong will, self-trust and much more everything.
Today, I’ll give the clear blueprint showing you how the narcissists exactly feel when you move on and leave him. Does he feel disturbed? Does the narcissist ignore you? What does he do and how does he feel?
How do Narcissists feel when you move on: The 5 Emotions
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
When you move on from a narcissist, anger is the first thing you can expect in response. Narcissists are wounded people who can’t bare at all, when they are replaced. Moving away from the narcissist make them strongly feel replaced. This feeling of replacement triggers the wounds of the narcissist making him more aggressive.
You can clearly see his anger by his silly acts like acting as if you don’t exist, Sending harsh messages, triggering guilt etc.
2. Being Jealous:
Imagine a child who was given a doll. Once the child gets attached to it, what happens if you take away the toy all of sudden. Beleive me, the child gets so frustrated and won’t accept, even if he was given a bigger doll. The same is with the case of a narcissist.
A narcissist is so possessive, and can’t bear seeing you move away from them. Jealousy is one of the most obvious things a narcissist feels, as soon as you move on. They get so jealous seeing you happy, especially even without him. And this is even more extreme when you start talking with a new partner.
3. Completely filled with thoughts:
Although many of us do overthink, this is more common in narcissists. When you move on suddenly, the narcissist is filled upon with huge emotions. With these heavy emotions like being ignored. feeling replaced, he/she fails to stop thinking.
Unable to vent out these emotions, the narcissist is filled with various thoughts thinking the same scenario again and again.
4. Holding the grudge:
One of the thumb rules for narcissists is they tend to think that everyone who ignores them, must be attacked. They don’t feel empathy or have concern, and this paves way for a cruel revenge on you. They hold this grudge as long as possible until you repent leaving the narcissist.
Let me warn you, narcissists have zero empathy and thus can go to any extent to satisfy his/her heavy grudge. This can sometimes even be shaming you publicly.
5. Feels Less valued resulting in Self-praising:
This is one of the peculiar emotions that only narcissists have. Whenever the narcissists feel ignored or hurt the narcissist start on a search for the narcissistic supply.
This begins with talking to himself and also talking to every person he knows. Here the narcissists do is only two things i.e praising themselves and on the other hand, scolding and insulting you. We can also say, the narcissist either tries to increase his value or tries to decrease your value, else the narcissist may collapse of feeling less valued.
What narcissists do not feel and can’t do (don’t expect these when you leave the narcissist and move on):
As I have already told what narcissists feel when you move on, now I’ll also tell you what a narcissist doesn’t feel even if you moved on after telling him..
Guilt that he has done wrong:
Tell any narcissists that they have done something wrong and see what happens. I can bet that the narcissist doesn’t agree to it at any cost and in response, he even starts claiming that it was your mistake.
So for a narcissist, the same applies to relationships too. A typical narcissist will never accept that it was his fault that led to the breakup. Thus he/she will have no guilt that they hurt you previously. Also no guilt for making the relationship go wrong.
Forgetting and Forgiving:
Unlike normal people, a narcissist can never forget you for leaving them alone. Even though he starts a new life, he can never forgive you nor leave you completely forgetting you.
Empathy for you:
As I have already told you, if you leave the narcissist and move on, the narcissist holds a huge grudge for you. This can lead to some extreme measures to seriously affect and hurt you. On the other hand, if you dig deeper you can clearly observe that the narcissist can never have empathy for you.
In simple the narcissist doesn’t even think or care about your feelings and emotions, except to hurt them and make you realize your mistake.
Do narcissists come back to you even if you move on? If so when?
This is one of the most common questions that many people ask.
Although we cannot say this happens all the time, in most of the cases, the narcissist do come back to his/her ex.
This is because of the narcissist’s emotional wounds which make him suffer all the time whenever he is ignored, replaced, or left alone. Unable to cope up with the pain, in most cases, narcissists tend to come back to their partners even if they have moved on.
If you ask me when? I’ll tell some cases when the narcissist partner came back just within few days and also some cases when the narcissist came back even after several years.
Imagine, what if you open the mobile, there comes a message “I MISS YOU, I NEED YOU” from your narcissist ex?
What if he starts chasing you, pleading you even in front of all your friends?
This is what happens..
When you strongly trigger the narcissist’s right side brain, the emotional brain. Yes, You are just a step away from using the 3 secret psychological loopholes that makes you narcissist ex to come Crawling back to you.
So Here is what to do..
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