It feels really bad when someone ignores you..
It is even more painful if it is the man whom you are interested in..
When you tell relationship experts that your crush is ignoring, all they suggest is one thing “when a man ignores you ignore him back..” But is this the right way? What if he completely forgets you forever?
Contrary, If it is so risky, why do many experts and gurus still suggest ignoring a man is the best strategy to make him chase you.
When he is ignoring you.. what are you doing?
If you don’t know the real reason why he is ignoring you. Also, if you are not sure whether he has interest in you or not. This makes you bombard him with continuous text messages, calls and even trying to talk to him, whenever you see him.
The result is, he acts even more colder and you’ll feel like shit and completely worthless.
In reality, this is what many women do. Contrary, go and ask women who have successful relationships and women who have many boys chasing her.
They tell you the real secret and power of ignoring a man. In fact, this is what many popular women spell on a man to get what they want, making him chase her madly.
4 reasons ignoring a man can make him obsess over you (and even chase you):
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
1. Guilt Takes over him:
Do you know one of the strongest emotions that can completely disturb a person is guilt? In fact, according to a research, it was found that there are many people who confuse guilt as love. This is because when you are guilty about doing something to someone, you continuously think about them. And many men confuse this continuous thinking to be love.
So, when you ignore a man who is ignoring you, he literally knows that you are hurt and sad. Knowing this, the man starts to feel guilty for being cold and ignoring you. And this guilt is a very strong emotion, making the guy to continuously think about you.
2. You start to seem more valuable:
It is a simple psychology that we humans, tend to value people/things that are less available. If not why do you think a diamond is more valuable? It’s just because it is less available.
So, if you are chasing a man even after ignoring, he tends to think that you are needy and always available. This makes him feel you as less valuable. On the other hand, if you too, started ignoring him, it makes him feel that you are not that easy to get and are not available to those who won’t treat you nicely. So this makes your man feel you are more valuable and pushes him to stop the ignoring game and come back to you.
3. His ego gets affected:
Although not everyone, some men gets too irritated when someone triggers their ego. Also, men who have too much self-love may get their ego triggered for even small issues.
So, when you ignore a man, this immediately triggers his ego. He even wonders and gets irritated why you are ignoring him. The girl(you) whom he used to ignore before, is ignoring him now. This badly affects his ego and make him continuously wonder as to when you are going to stop this ignoring behavior.
Thus his simple triggered ego forces him to chase you, think about you and obsess over you continuously. In fact ego is very powerful and can take him to any extent.
4. He feels the Loss:
Do you know in many cases, men take things for granted? So, when you are chasing him, he takes you for granted. At times, men may even ignore you, just to see how you would react and create drama for him. Whatever may be the case, ignoring him back gives him the much-needed shock that makes him realize that you may be lost.
Fear is another strong emotion, that pushes a person to do anything. So when you ignore a man when he ignored you, it will make him realize that you are not that silly chasing girl. It also sends a strong signal that if he continues the same behavior, you may be lost forever.
Thus even if you both are in your initial stages of dating, and even if he is not at all interested in you, the thought of losing you (a girl who shows love) may create an intense fear which makes him chase back you.
The Big Problem while ignoring your man and a simple trick to overcome it:
If I end the article here, I have said only a half-truth. Many women read half information across the websites and blindly follow the tips. Thus they end up backfired when the man they ignored is lost forever.
This is the reason, we writers at Crazyjackz give you complete information so that you achieve what you actually desire.
Now… the Big problem that arises..
Let us imagine, your man ignored you for a few times. Thus, you decided to do something and started ignoring him back. Hours passed by.. Days passed by.. Weeks passed by..
He did not respond, even though you are ignoring him continuously. You are even confused that whether he noticed your feelings or not. Thus months later, you end up going back to him, texting him, calling him and chasing him again.
But this is too late. Already a big gap came in between you and obviously you are no longer any part of his thoughts or life.
This the biggest problem many women literally faces, when they follow this strategy of ignoring the man who ignored them. The result is what we consider as a complete backfire.
If you are ready enough to lose him forever.. You can take the risk, follow the ignoring game and get the fruits you are expecting. On the other hand, if you don’t want to lose him at any cost or if you want to play a safe game. Then, here is a simple trick for you..
Step 1: Initially let us consider, he is ignoring you for some or the other reason. Now, don’t start ignoring him immediately. All you need to do is wait for a couple of days
Step 2: Now after 2 or 3 days, send him a random text. It can either be an important question like “Hey, where did you buy the party dress which you wore last week” or some kind of teasing or flirting.
Remember you should not talk or ask anything regarding why he ignored you the last time. Doing so, it can again create past bad emotions in him. So, act as if nothing happened and he never ignored you. If he is your crush or date, talk anything like mentioned above. Contrary, if you are already in a relationship you can also add some sorry if he is ignoring you after some kind of argument.
(Be careful with the step 2. Use your presence of mind and don’t beg him and plead him to talk. You need to create a perfect text or situation, for which he has no option to ignore but to reply definitely)
Step 3: Now once you did the step 2, most probably you’ll get a reply. If not you can repeat the same thing again after 2 days. So if he is already your boyfriend and everything is fine with your relationship, you can ignore this step. Contrary, if he is still that initial date or your crush or a problematic boyfriend you can cast the big spell below.
The big spell is nothing but ignoring him at the right time. Yes, Once he gets normal and starts talking to you (after step 2), cut him off immediately. Yes, you need to ignore him when he started getting to talk to you.
All you are doing is a magnet-like attraction. Yes, This is like two people pulling a rope on both ends. All you are doing is balancing.. when he is ignoring you, you move ahead and attract him to talk to you. And once he is attracted, and talking to you, you get to pull off resulting in the man to come back to you and chase you.
Thus instead of simply ignoring the man right back after he ignored you.. this is even safer and powerful strategy to follow.
The Double advantage of this Trick which causes extreme confusion:
Another important thing when coming to understanding a man’s psychology is.. The more confusion you create in his mind, the more he thinks about you and the more he gets attached and attracted to you. So, ignoring him right after he ignored you is an obvious move (as many may do the same)
On the other hand, when you ignored him at a completely random time, (especially when he is showing interest in you) creates a strong confusion. This confusion strongly triggers his emotions making your man think about you again and again.
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