He used to talk to you with complete attention and you used to take complete care of him every time.
You thought that he won’t leave you forever.
But as days passed by, you can clearly observe the change in his behavior. He is even ignoring you sometimes. So what should you do now to get him back?
Should you care for him more? Should you leave him alone? Will he actually come back if you leave him alone?
Don’t worry, today I’m going to tell you what a man thinks when you leave him alone, and finally whether it is going to work or not?
“Will he come back if I leave him alone?”
See, you may have already seen many websites that bombard you with some absolute nonsense, which are in no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
Tell me, why do you think many e-commerce stores offer discounts only for a few days? Why does the price of the item goes up if it is less in stock? This is because we humans tend to believe that the things which are less available are more valuable.
Sometimes, the same applies to relationships too. When one of the partners takes another person for granted, he/she may completely neglect them. However suddenly, when that other person, becomes less available, the one who neglected before (realizes the value of his/her partner) and comes back giving the full attention again.
This is what generally happens when you leave your man alone. Still wondering how? Here are the 6 strong reasons that reveal why he will come back if you leave him alone for some time.
6 Reasons why he will come back if you leave him alone:
1. It makes him realize that you can be lost
In general, humans tend to take some things for granted. For example, we feel that some people like parents, close friends etc will never leave us and thus neglect them.
So once you leave him alone, he will start to know that you may leave him if he neglects you. He will realize that he should not take you for granted and there is a considerable chance of him losing you. This fear of losing you will make him love you more and thus come back to you finally. Read What to do if he blocked me after an argument?
2. He knows how it would be without you
“Sometimes, you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory”. This is what he will realize in your absence. In fact, there goes a saying that ‘a woman falls in love during your presence.. while a man falls in love during your absence’. Yes, of course, it’s true. If a man tends to miss a person more, he will eventually end up loving that person more.
He wasn’t getting the good morning messages, He doesn’t have someone to share his feelings, He doesn’t have someone who loves him. And this is when he will know how life could be without you. As he knows how life would be without you, he no longer wants such an incomplete life and thus gets back to you quickly.
3. It will question his ego and self-worth
Some men tend to feel that the more a female loves him, the more worthy he is. So until today, he will feel great about himself by the love you showed for him. But once you left him alone, he will start feeling less worthy. His ego increases and his subconscious mind starts making him feel weak.
Thus he will start feeling less worthy unless you start loving him back. Thus this feeling of ego drives him towards you finally. Read Why does he ignore me if he likes me? Here are the 6 Key reasons
4. His overthinking forces him to clear all the matters
Do you know why we tend to watch thriller movies until last? This is because our minds can’t resist the confusion the movie creates. Similarly, when you leave a man suddenly alone, he gets confused.
He starts thinking about you more and more..
Did I neglect her more?
Will she come back again?
Should I talk to her or Will she talk to me?
What if she leaves me forever?
Thus, such a kind of overthinking and confusion finally makes him come back to you. Read what does a man think when he falls in love? The 7 Things
5. He gets some space:
Generally, a person tends to think more when he is alone. So once you leave him alone and give him some space, he will start to think and thus try to sort out his problems.
He may have many problems like job, financial pressure, family issues etc. Thus when you leave him alone for some time, he will eventually figure out the solutions to all his problems and thus try to sort them down one by one. Once he gets over his other problems, he feels happy, shifts the energy towards your relationship, and thus come back to you again. Read 5 Situations when a Guy says he misses you.. (Based on Psychology)
6. You become his ‘Habit’ and this starts to haunt him
In general, humans tend to get used to some people and some practices, For example, if you receive a good morning text from someone everyday, then the day that person stops sending you the text, you will start thinking about him.
Similarly, the closeness between you and your man, the intimacy you both shared, you could already have been an integral part of his life. Thus calling you, meeting you, spending time with you was all a ‘Habit’ for him.
So once you leave him alone, he will feel the loss of these lovely things which were a part of his life before. Thus he badly will want to get them back from you again. Such a kind of force will eventually lead him to come back to you, no matter what.
Leaving him alone is like a two-edged sword and can sometimes even backfire too. Some men get hurt deeply, and can even leave you forever. Moreover, this technique only works if he likes you truly. Thus be careful and get him back successfully.
You are leaving him alone..
So just imagine what if this technique fails and he gets even more distant.
If at all any such thing happens, this will become your scary nightmare and a deadly pre-stage of an excruciating break-up.
If you want to get your man back with a surefire strategy that has never resulted in failed (ever). If you want to get him back so strongly such that he will love you again and again forever.
Here is what to do..
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