He used to talk to you with complete attention.
You used to care for you and you thought that he won’t leave you forever.
But as days passed by, you can clearly observe the change in his behavior. He is even ignoring you sometimes. So what should you do now to get him back?
Should you care him more? Should you leave him alone?
Don’t worry, today I’m going to tell you what a man thinks when you leave him alone, and finally whether it is going to work or not?
The Haunting question “Will he come back if I leave him alone?”
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
Tell me, why do you think many e-commerce stores offer discounts only for few days? Why the price of the item increases if it is less available? This is because we humans tend to believe that the things which are less available are more valuable.
This is what happens when you leave a person alone. Just listen to this true story across the forums (How he feels when a girl he likes start ignoring him)
First I didn’t like her, not hated her, but, had no feelings for her.
Then, on one day, ofcourse on Facebook, we discussed about policy, till the conversation chained to other stuff.
I felt like she’s the one that understands me, I then, started to like her, she was helping me with many things, motivating me, and making me feel good.
I started flirting with a polite way, and she seemed to like it, she was even asked me to comment on her pictures and flirt there.
But in college, she would act shy and not talk to me alot.
Till one day, she was feeling bad, I talked to her, tried to make her feel good till she told me she isn’t in a mood to talk to anyone, I told her it was okay and that she can talk to me whenever she feels better.
A day later, she deleted me off Facebook, it was on a weekend, I was broken then, and wondered what happened.
The day after, in school, I didn’t want to talk to her because I was afraid of annoying her, but it surprised me that she started ignoring me and treating me like a stranger, she doesn’t even say good morning anymore.
Did I do anything wrong? Did I hurt her feelings by any meaning? I just feel sad now, and feel like lost, should I add her back on Facebook, or should I talk to her in school?
6 Reasons why he will come back if you leave him alone:
1. It makes him know that you can be lost
In general, humans tend to take some things for granted. For example, we feel that some people like parents, close friends etc will never leave us and thus neglect them.
So once you leave him alone, he will start to know that you may leave him if he neglects you. He will realize that you are not at all granted and there is a chance of losing you. This fear of losing you will make him love you more and thus come back to you finally. Read What to do if he blocked me after an argument?
2. He knows how it would be without you
“Sometimes, you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory” This is what happens to him. In general, we know the value of a person only in his absence. According to many studies, men tend to miss more eventually loving the person more.
He doesn’t get the good morning message, He doesn’t have someone to share his feelings, He doesn’t have someone who loves him. And this is when he will know how life could be without you. As he knows how life would be without you, he no longer wants such a pathetic life and thus gets back to you.
3. It will question his ego and self-worth
Some men tend to feel that the more a female loves him, the more worthy he is. So until today, he will feel great on feeling the love you showed on him. But once you left him alone, he will start feeling less worthy. His ego increases and his subconscious mind starts making him feel weak.
Thus he will start feeling less unless you start loving him back. Thus this feeling of ego drives him towards you finally. Read Why does he ignore me if he likes me? Here are the 6 Key reasons
4. His overthinking forces him to clear all the matters
Do you know why we tend to watch thriller movies until last? This is because our mind can’t resist the confusion the movie creates. Similarly, when you leave a man suddenly alone, he gets confused.
He starts thinking about you more and more..
Did I neglect her more?
Will she come back again?
Should I talk to her or Will she talk to me?
What if she leaves me forever?
Thus, such a kind of overthinking and confusion finally makes him come back to you. Read what does a man think when he falls in love? The 7 Things
5. He gets some space:
According to many studies, a person tends to think more when he is alone. So once you leave him alone and give him some space, he will start to think and try to sort out his problems.
He may have many problems like job, financial pressure, family issues etc. Thus when you leave him, he will figure out the solutions and sort down his problems. Once he gets over his problems, he feels happy, but misses you and thus comes back. Read 5 Situations when a Guy says he misses you.. (Based on Psychology)
6. His addiction starts to kill him
In general, humans tend to addicted to some people and some practices, For example, if you receive a good morning text from someone everyday, then the day the person stops the text, you will start thinking about him.
So, the closeness between you and him have already been there from a lot of days. Thus he gets addicted to calling to you, gets addicted to meeting you, gets addicted to spending time etc etc.
So once you leave him alone, he will feel the loss of these addicted things. He badly feels to want them from you. Such kind of addiction will eventually lead him to come back to you.
Leaving him alone is like a two-edged sword and can sometimes even backfire too. Some men get hurt deeply, and can even leave you forever. Moreover, this technique works if he likes you truly. Thus be careful and get him back successfully.
You are leaving him alone..
So just imagine what if this technique fails and he gets even more distant.
If at all any such thing happens, this will become your scary nightmare and a deadly pre-stage of an excruciating break-up.
If you want to get your man back with a surefire strategy that has never resulted in failed (ever). If you want to get him back so strongly such that he will love you again and again forever.
Here is what to do..
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