You felt bad when he ignored you.. You even felt devastated too..
But, Your inner feelings still push you to text him. No matter you have the doubt whether he will reply or not, you are still in a gush to press the green button on your mobile.
So, “what should I do now? “Should I text him back after he ignored me?” “What if he ignores me again” “So, is it better to stay calm?”
If this is your dilemma, then let me tell you, you are at the right place. Today, in this article I’ll reveal the most important things you must consider in deciding whether to text him or not? Additionally, I’ll also show you some key rules you need to follow while texting him after he ignored you.
5 Things to Consider while deciding whether to text him or not (especially after he ignored you):
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
1. Evaluating his Level of interest:
This is the first thing you must think before texting him. Is he really interested in talking to you? Is he the loving partner? or an uninterested date? or the dreaded ex?
So, if you strongly know, that he is interested in you, you can text him without any hesitation, in spite of the fact that he is ignoring you. Remember, we should never bring distance with our loved ones, just because of ego.
2. The Count of ignoring:
Is this the first time he ignored you? Or is he ignoring you repeatedly? This is another question you need to ask yourself. Repeated ignoring is a clear sign that he is doing this intentionally. So, texting him even if he is ignoring you multiple times, can not only affect your self-esteem but also his perceived value on you.
3. The reason for ignoring:
Although this is obvious, this is another big thing you need to think about. Why is he ignoring you? So, by evaluating the reason for his ignoring, you can also clearly see his intentions behind it.
So, thinking this can clearly show you, whether he is ignoring you because he was hurt, or ignoring you just because he doesn’t care or interested in you.
4. His Personal Life:
Yes, you need to definitely research about his personal life, before sending a text or being silent to him. Although not everyone, some people have the habit of isolating themselves when they are depressed. So take some time to investigate whether he is undergoing some hard phase in his life.
I agree that researching this is a bit difficult, instead, you can ask your common friends whether your man is ignoring them too or not.
5. The Manipulators:
Some men intentionally manipulate women, to get what they want. In that process, they even go to the extent of ignoring, just to create confusion in the woman he is targetting.
So, when you are in a dilemma, whether to text him or not, just make sure that he is not a manipulator, who is intentionally ignoring you to create triggers of confusion and love in you. Contrary, if you feel that he is a player or some kind of manipulator, it is better to break his belief that you will come back even if he ignores you.
6 Texting Rules on making him stop the ignoring Game:
So, once you consider the above 5 things, you can finally come to a decision whether to text him or not. But, you need to remember that he ignored you the last time. So, you need to change your game plan or otherwise, you end up with the same situation again.
So, here are some crucial texting rules you need to follow when you text him back after he ignored you.
Rule 1: Changing the Topic Completely:
One of the important rules you need to remember is to start off fresh. You should not text anything about the past incident for which he ignored you. For example.. If he ignored you last time for a “Hi, how are you?” message, don’t ask the same question at all.
Instead change the topic completely and text him on some other different topic. Remember, doing this you are completely preventing the previous incident’s bad emotions from bouncing back in him.
Rule 2: Take a short gap
We, humans, tend to have a shorter memory. Thus things and emotions tend to fade off over a period of time. Thus it is better you take a short gap of at least a couple of days, before texting him back again.
So, hold your feelings and don’t ever bombard him with continuous messages in spite of the fact that he is ignoring you.
Rule 3: Less Drama
The Less dramatic your text is, the more is the chance that he responds to you. Don’t create drama on why he ignored you the last time. It is, even more, better if you act like nothing happened and he never ignored you in the past.
Rule 4: Ask a question or Tease him
If you strongly study hundreds of case studies, you will tend to see some key patterns for which men will definitely reply. Yes, especially two types of texts almost guarantee a reply from the other person, no matter the situation.
1)One is asking any relevant question like “Hey, you told me you’ll go to the Avengers movie last week, Did you watch it?” (Remember rule 3 and don’t ask him why he ignored you).
2)The other is any type of teasing or silly message that brings a small natural smile on his face. It’s, even more, better if you add some flattery praising in the message too.
Rule 5: Raise your score
Tell me will you even think of ignoring, if your celebrity crush sent you a message? No, Right? This is because you feel a lot of value and give the celebrity a high score in terms of value.
So, this clearly proves that the number of times your man is ignoring is inversely proportional to the value and importance he feels for you. So, try to raise your score in his perspective, and he will be forced to text you, even if you don’t text him.
Rule 6: It’s better in the real world
Whatever may be the situation, physical presence creates a lot of impact, rather than a simple text message. Your physical presence creates strong triggers, feelings, emotions, which a simple text message can’t. So if he is continuously ignoring you, try to face and talk to him directly (Again don’t forget Rule 1 and 3) rather than sending a text.
Attention: The 2 Little Text messages to send if he is ignoring you intentionally (Attraction Psychology)