He gave you all the signs of interest for you..
You are sure that on one memorable day, he would even propose you..
But suddenly everything changed. He started ignoring you all of a sudden. And you came to know that he is ignoring your texts intentionally. So one question started haunting you “why does he ignore me if he likes me?”
why is this all happening? Is something wrong on your part? Why do guys sometimes ignore you when they like you?
The 3 Cross checks you need to do initially:
You are already in a feeling that he is ignoring you. But before moving further, I just want you to cross-check some crucial things by observing him for a few days.
Cross check 1 – Check if he is ignoring you on intention
Sometimes he might be really busy or could not meet you or text you. This doesn’t mean that he is ignoring you. So first of all cross check whether he is really busy or ignoring you intentionally.
Cross check 2 – Make sure if he is not going through some rough phase of life
It could be a death of a family member. It could be even a financial problem. Everyone has some rough phases of life during which we hate meeting people. So secondly, cross-check and make sure that he is not going through some rough phase of life.
Cross check 3 – Knowing whether he is ignoring everyone or Just only you
Yes, Thirdly you need to confirm whether he is ignoring everyone or ignoring just only you (with some intention in mind).
So, once you finished your cross-checks, you are now sure that he is intentionally ignoring you, not going through any rough phase and targeting only you. So Now, hold on tight as I dig deeper and reveal you the real psychological reasons why guys ignore women even if they like them.
6 Key Reasons why he is ignoring you even if he likes you:
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
1. He is an insensitive player:
If a guy ignores you all of a sudden, there are many chances that he could be a player. Players tend to show excess affection, love, at initial stages all to grab your intention. Once they are sure that you like them back, slowly they start to back off and begins ignoring you.
In most cases, they do this to make you emotional, confused so that your feelings for him gets intense. In order to know if he is a player, just ask his friends/colleagues about his past relationships. Soon you will get some startling truths about his character.
2. He just wants to make sure that you Like him:
Although men seem to look confident, even they do require validation from a woman. Yes, This is a deep truth that is applicable to everyone.
Men just like women, regularly want to make sure that his woman likes and cares for him. According to a study, it was even found out that the more a person is attached to a partner, the more he looks for the validation of love and care.
So one of the best ways to know whether if a person is caring/loving you is by simply ignoring them. Thus, by the reaction, the man receives from you, he often feels the satisfaction and validation he is expecting.
So in simple, he may be ignoring you just to validate and affirm that you like him too.
3. He has that Big ego:
People with high ego are often known to sudden discarding if someone disrupts their ego, even slightly. So, if the man who likes you have a big ego, he might start to ignore, if you directly or indirectly attacked his ego.
Thus all he believes is that you deserve a strong punishment for the reason of hurting his ego. You can easily discover whether a man has a big ego by just looking for some key signs. This includes sudden waves of anger, unacceptance of criticism, nature of taking revenge etc etc.
4. If felt like he was wasting his feelings:
Did you tell him that you are interested in another man? Did you ignore or left him alone on a particular incident? And finally, did you do something that made him feel bad? If yes, then this could be the reason behind his strange act of ignoring you.
All he might be feeling is… that his care, attention, and love towards you are completely being wasted. Thus thinking that he is unnecessarily wasting his feelings on you, he tends to start ignoring you and act as if he doesn’t care you. Here, you need to understand that it may not be a big incident but even a small act like ignoring his call can sometimes cause this strange feeling in a man.
5. He might be reading psychology on the internet:
Although this can never be the case in previous generations, it can be a big reason if he is the man of a new generation. Most men nowadays are reading relationship websites who tell them absolutely scrap.
They reed ignoring games, acts of not being needy etc and thus ignore you all of a sudden. Don’t believe me? Just search for men dating advice and read what many websites are teaching you.
6. It could be the Jealousy Factor:
Jealousy is one of the strongest emotions that can lead a person to do anything. Tell me, are you being close to some other man nowadays? Are you setting up a date with a new man? If Yes, then this could be a reason that he is ignoring you suddenly.
If the man likes you, most probably this could create an intense anger and thus he will strongly stop talking to you. In such a case, in addition to ignoring, he might even show some hatred and anger towards you. This is even more if he is a possessive guy.
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