You’re out with your friends, and you suddenly notice somebody’s deep eyes on you.
You turned around and catch a guy looking you up and down. Now, you’re confused about what he wants.
Should you go up and start a conversation with him? Or is it just his way of telling you that you’ve spilled food on your attire (that your friends conveniently forgot to mention)?
First, Understand the context and Backdrop of your situation..
Women still wonder why many guys look at them from head to toe. In fact, this is the most common question many women ask love Gurus..
So, why does a man do so? What does it mean when a guy looks you up and down? Does that mean he’s checking you out? Or is he just flirting with you indirectly?
First things first..
If you are trying to understand why a guy looked at you up and down, the first thing you need to keep in your mind is the “context” of the situation.
Yes, sometimes it all depends upon the context and the backdrop, where the guy was looking at you. For example, a guy who is looking at you near a fashion store could be looking at your clothes. On the other hand, a guy looking at the pub could be completely flirting with you..
So, One by one, Let’s try to find out various interpretations (what really goes inside his head) when a guy is looking at you from head to toe.
What does it actually mean when a guy looks you up and down? (8 Psychological Interpretations)
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
1. He thinks he’s flirting:
It’s a no-brainer really. What else would he be doing? Most guys think of this slow assessing look-over as a signature move. They are mistaken into thinking that this would flatter their object of attention, when this is hardly the case.
More often than not, the girl in question feels vulnerable to his gaze. However, guys are impervious to this and continue to express their interest towards females in this manner. Maybe he thought you were attractive and wanted to let you know, just in case he had a shot with you.
2. He’s trying to tickle your funny bone:
Although not in many cases.. But if the guy looking is a friend/acquaintance of yours, then this could be the actual reason. Yes, he may be trying his best to make you laugh by carrying out this action super slow. He may also be running his eyes all over you in an attempt to flirt.
He probably expects you to respond back by either shooting him a smile, breaking into a laugh or flirting back with him.
3. He’s checking out your clothes:
Sometimes, when a guy gives you the up and down look, he may not be interested in you but simply fascinated by your sartorial choices. Perhaps you’re wearing an unusual outfit or something well-put together. Maybe you took your color blocking a notch too high?
Yes, It happens. Look at your own outfit and judge if it warrants a look-over. He could be admiring your sense of style by looking at your pretty dress.
4. He’s trying to read your body language:
Let’s face it – guys can be daft. Also, they suck at subtlety. At times, him looking you up and down would be a sign on his part that he is observing your body language.
Guys generally try to gauge your reaction from a distance (itself) to see whether it is safe to approach. If you pick up on his interest and respond accordingly, he may approach you, else he’ll back off. So, if that’s the case, he is simply checking to your body language (for signs of interest) before he can make a real move.
5. He’s assessing your threat level:
This can be somewhat silly, but believe me, this could be your case too, if you are out there on the busy streets. If he is a uniformed person or a law enforcement officer, he is probably looking out to see if you pose a threat of any manner.
On the other hand, If you’re being looked up and down by a man in a shop, he may be suspecting you of having stolen something. He may still be assessing your threat level if he thinks you’re beautiful. God knows, he’s an independent man and probably just doesn’t want to fall slave to your charms.
6. He is shy and has no idea how to approach you:
If you find a guy looking you up and down and getting embarrassed when you catch him in the act, he is most likely a shy person. He likes you but doesn’t know how to come up and talk to you.
His nervousness is deterring him from walking up to you and expressing his interest. You could help the poor guy out in such a situation if you find him cute too.
7. He thinks he knows you:
Maybe you resemble a person he knows, which is why he is looking at you slowly and steadily. He is trying to rack his brains in an attempt to remember where he knows you from. It could also be that you’ve happened to cross ways before, in which case too, he has a familiar feeling of knowing you but cannot place you.
Hence, he proceeds to give you a slow look up and down hoping he will be able to recall who you are and how you are connected to him.
8. He thinks you have a hot body:
This is the common case if the guy who’s looking at you is a complete stranger. He doesn’t know you enough to find you romantically attractive, but he sure harbors physical attraction for you.
If he is looking you up and down, he just really thinks you have a fine body. You can ignore him, or if he’s really making you uncomfortable, you can let him know the same.
Guys have a number of reasons to perform the slow look-up and down on a girl. They may think you’re fetching. They may want to start a conversation with you. They may be admiring your body. Then again, they may simply be judgmental about your outfit choices!
So, next time a guy stares at you from up and down, go through all these 8 interpretations to understand his real feeling and intentions. And remember, not to forget the context and background of the situation..
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