If you closely observe many case studies on men, you can clearly see a common instance..
Whenever a man proposed a girl, or whenever a man fell in love.. it happened only when that guy started missing the girl in some or the other way.
So, is this actually true? Do guys fall in love when they miss you? What happens in a guy’s mind when he misses you? why does it force him to fall for you subconsciously?
4 Theories that explain, how and why Guys fall in love when they miss you:
See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
Explanation 1: The availability – Value Perception Thinking
If you are given a bag full of diamonds and a bag full of coal.. What will you take? Obviously the diamonds. But do you know the fact that both are similar minerals that are obtained from the same earth? Then why do people perceive diamonds to be so valuable, while coal to be less valuable?
This all boils down to a core tthinking of availability – value perception. Yes, we humans subconsciously feel that, things which are less available are valuable. This is the reason why many marketers show limited stock offers, to just make them less available..aka more valuable.
So, whenever you pull away and are being less available (to your guy), you are starting to create a stir of emotions in him. He slowly starts feeling that you are more and more valuable. In fact, Your lesser availability makes him perceive that you are very important, and he should not miss you at any cost. And obviously, this forces him to fall in love with you in no time..
Explanation 2: Human’s resistance to Uncertainty
We people love certainty. In fact, many people can’t ever bear when their life becomes uncertain. The same goes for relationships too. If we are routined to a particular lifestyle with a partner, we cannot bear if this routine is disturbed. We expect the same to happen and be certain again.
So whenever your absence strikes your guy, it creates a strong uncertainty in his life patterns. For him, the new life without you becomes irritating, disturbed and unwanted. Thus these emotions strongly push him to get back the previous routine, where his life already got used with you. And finally, this uncertainty makes him feel that he has fallen in love with you.
Explanation 3: Fear is the strongest emotion to make a person act
Do you know, what is the strongest emotion that can make a person act immediately? Yes, it’s the fear. More than the desire to get anything, the fear of losing it, is always a stronger emotion. Thus the same emotion is generated when a guy is missing you. He starts to imagine that you may be lost. He even understands that you can be lost if the right action is not taken.
Thus the fear being the strongest emotion, it will push your man very hard to express his feelings to you and get you forever. This is the reason, many men who even remained silent for years, express their feelings all of a sudden when the girl goes no contact.
Thus the fear.. like an underlying factor, is one of the main reasons why a guy falls in love when he misses you.
Explanation 4: The clear-cut impact of Feelings
Do you know your mind, body feels elated and happy when you are in love? Whenever you hug, touch or even flirt with your partner, you experience number of happy feelings. In fact, these are responsible for the feeling of butterflies in one’s stomach. So, when this happens, you get an instant happiness, making you completely addicted for that good feeling. Thus slowly, you feel like doing it again and again and again to get the same reward.
Now, when your man is attracted to you, he generates a number of exciting feelings. He feels the instant highness, making him feel on top of the world. So suddenly when you pull away, or when he is away with you, his body lacks the generation of these feelings. Thus he will start feeling low, depressed and even unhappy. And this is the time when your guy starts thinking that he can’t be happy without you, and he must get back to you to get back his happiness. Thus eventually you become his obsession making him completely do anything for you. Thus your man’s simple feelings can directly make him fall in love with you as soon as he misses you.
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