Last Updated on February 17, 2021 by Team CrazyJackz
It was a painful breakup..
Even though he/she was a rude narcissist and even though the relationship ended forever, something deep inside you is still thinking about them.. So, does your narcissist too is thinking the same about you? at least even once in a while?
Unless you know this truth, your heart continuously wanders and thinks about your partner again and again.
So Today, Hold your heart and read the article to get the answer to your most sensitive deep question “Does my narcissistic ex think about me?”
9 Clear cut signs your Narcissistic ex thinks about you:
See, you may have already seen many websites that bombard you with some absolute non-sense, which are in no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.
1. You could clearly sense the anger:
To be honest, a narcissist and aggression are almost synonyms. Yes, whenever a narcissist is ignored or left alone, chances are super high that he/she gets so angry. This is even more in the case of their relationship partners.
Thus, if your narcissistic ex is thinking about you, then, you can clearly see the waves of anger and irritation in his/her actions. The narcissist may act as if you are non-existent and may even ignore you completely. This weird behavior even after the breakup is a clear sign that your narcissist still thinks about you and wants to show you their anger and pain.
2. He/She gets jealous if you talk to a new person:
One of the most peculiar characteristics of a narcissist is the fear of losing and being replaced. This makes them more and more possessive. In fact, this is the reason why many narcissists come back even years after the relationship has ended.
Also, their nature of unable to lose the narcissistic supply makes them even more possessive. So, just try to speak to a new partner or a new date and see your narcissist’s reaction. In simple, the more jealous he/she gets, the more they remember you, and your love they used to get previously.
3. Continue to speak bad about you with his/her friends:
Another common trait of narcissists is the constant devaluation of their exes. They do this just to feel good about themselves and also to prove themselves that they are right in front of others. (As you know that a narcissist can never accept that he is wrong).
So now, the narcissist has already broken up with you. Thus he wants to prove to others that it was you, who was a bad partner and was responsible for the breakup, while the narcissist was a good and great person.
So when you observe your narcissist doing this, it is a clear sign that he/she still thinks about you, daily analyzing the things you have done, finally telling others that there was no mistake on his/her part.
4. Constantly checks your social media profiles:
Is your narcissistic ex still following your Instagram profile? or still your friend on Facebook? If Yes, then chances are high that your narcissist is still thinking about you and is eager to know what’s happening in your life. If not why do you think, your ex is still stalking your social media profiles and all your social updates.
It is pretty normal, as one blocks or unfollows their exes social media profiles once they move on. Contrary if your narcissistic ex is still not unfollowing you, then you need to think upon it.
5. Feels irritated if you are successful and happy:
Often narcissists feel that every person, who leaves them is very ignorant and doesn’t deserve anything in life. The narcissist even feels that you did a big mistake losing him. They cover up their pain and feeling of being left alone by these arrogant affirmations and feelings.
So, when the narcissist sees you happy and successful, this completely disrupts those arrogant feelings and affirmations. Thus, the narcissist gets so irritated and confused seeing you happy and successful even without them. So next time when you are happy, if you see your narcissist ex feeling irritated and agitated, then it is clear that he/she is still fighting their breakup pain with some above-told affirmations
6. Shows keen interest in your matters (when someone tells them):
This is another crucial test you can do to know whether your narcissist ex is thinking about you or not? All you need to do is ask one of your common friends or even your friend to raise a topic about you in front of your partner.
Listen, this can be anything about you and should look like a complete natural talk. Now observe the reaction of your narcissist clearly. If the narcissist asks about you or seems interested in the talk, then this is a clear sign that he/she is still thinking about you.
7. Acting to be too happy and too romantic without you:
Is your narcissist ex trying to be too romantic with new girls? Is your narcissist intentionally acting that he is so happy without you? If yes, then there is a huge chance that your ex is constantly thinking about you. If not why do you think he/she does all these stuff instead of simply hiding away from you.
In fact, your narcissist is still on a chase to show you that they can be happy even without you. He/she wants to make you feel jealous and unhappy so that you will come back to them finally.
8. Too many social media posts especially against love:
Social media posts are nothing but the representation of one’s feelings and thoughts. So, Do you think sad quotes and love quotes signal that he/she thinks about you? Although this is Yes for other people, this is exactly the opposite in the case of narcissists.
Narcissists never let them appear weak, and this makes them post completely attitude-filled posts. So if your narcissist ex is posting regular arrogant quotes about/against love, then most probably he/she is thinking about you and want you (and others) to see these posts. Also, the more targeted these posts are towards you, the more he/she must be thinking about you daily.
9. Random sudden Text messages:
Once the relationship has ended, the couples don’t feel like interacting with each other. This is pretty much common. But contrary if your narcissist is sending some random text messages, then it is a clear sign that he/she is still thinking about you.
Whatever may be the message, they are not just random messages, but the deep messages sent to you after days of suppressed and controlled feelings. So a sudden text message or a call is a very big sign that your narcissistic ex is still thinking about you.
Imagine, what if you open the mobile, there comes a message “I MISS YOU, I NEED YOU” from your narcissist ex?
What if he starts chasing you, pleading you even in front of all your friends?
This is what happens..
When you strongly trigger the narcissist’s right side brain, the emotional brain. Yes, You are just a step away from using the 3 secret psychological loopholes that makes you narcissist ex to come Crawling back to you.
So Here is what to do..