What a Narcissist does at the end of a relationship? Narcissist Psychology

One of the peculiar quality of a narcissist is the lack of empathy,

Yes, Narcissists have zero empathy and this makes them so unpredictable, especially in relationships.

You never know when a narcissist leaves you or ignores you or loves you. So, where does this unpredictable relationship with the narcissist end up with? what a narcissist does at the end of a relationship?

5 Things a Narcissist does at the end of a Relationship:

See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. But I at crazyJackz only give you practical conclusions that are true to real life.

1. Brainwashing the mind of the victim:

Narcissist relationship breakup

Manipulation is the technique that narcissists use to get what they want from people. Simply, in accordance with time, they manipulate their partners to get the narcissist supply from them.

The biggest manipulation that is done by the narcissist is when the relationship is about to end. The narcissist completely brainwashes that you are the reason for the damage of relationship. They even manipulate you to believe that you are a drama queen or some kind of a very sensitive person. In simple, the narcissist creates a belief in you (even without your knowledge) that you are unsuitable for any relationship.

2. Starts the search for a new narcissistic supply:

how do narcissists end up?

A typical narcissist is always in search of the narcissistic supply. So, as the relationship is fading now, the narcissist suffers the lack of the narcissistic supply. The lower the narcissist feels your value, the lesser your relationship strokes his/her ego.

Thus, the narcissist constantly starts searching for a new narcissistic supply. This is generally a new partner or a new friends with benefits relationship. You need to remember, that sometimes even if the narcissist cannot get a new partner, you can clearly see his/her search for the narcissistic supply from other sources like extreme focus on career, learning philosophy etc

3. Discard you all of a sudden when he/she feels so:

will a narcissist leave a relationship?

This is the saddest thing, and also the biggest truth about a narcissist. When the narcissist is ending the relation, he/she does it in a sudden awkward way. They can suddenly block you and discard you even without any reason. In fact, this is what makes a breakup with the narcissist a nightmare.

Generally, the narcissist discard can range from blocking you on social media and to completely ignoring you forever. That too all of a sudden without giving any closure to the victim.

4. Starts abusing you constantly triggering guilt:

narcissistic relationship pattern

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As I have already told, narcissists have zero empathy. Thus the lack of empathy can turn up into some serious abuses especially when the narcissist is ready to move on. Additionally, some narcissists even feel that abusing, making you cry and weep can get their control over the relationship.

So, if your narcissist is constantly abusing you and your abilities, soon your narcissist is going to end the relationship. Additionally, the narcissist even tries to create guilt, making you feel that you are wrong all the time.

5. Showing totally mixed emotions:

narcissist relationship cycle

Generally at the end of the relation, especially when the narcissist is not getting his narcissistic supply, he/she tends to be confused. This confusion, in turn, results in totally mixed emotions of the narcissist.

For example, one day the narcissist may abuse you so harshly and immediately the next day comes back to you showering with love. This mixed emotions phase continues until they take a decision to leave you. Once the narcissist no longer values you, he/she discards you completely putting an end to your relationship.

The Patterns of the narcissist at the end of the relationship:

Although I revealed the 5 common things that narcissists do when he/she is about to move on.. Now, I’ll also show you the exact patterns and sequence of things a narcissist does at the end of the relationship.

Initially, once the excess affection i.e love showering stage is completed, the narcissist start to lose the interest in the relationship. Gradually, the relationship no longer gives him the ego boost/ the narcissistic supply.

This is when the narcissists start devaluing you. This initially begins as a funny way which as days pass by turn into serious devaluations.

Days later, when the narcissist no longer cares about you, they start abusing you for each and every reason. As the narcissist is not getting the expected narcissistic supply from you nor the relationship, his/her thoughts of leaving you, start off.

Now, I'll also show you the exact patterns and sequence of things a narcissist does at the end of the relationship?

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Thus, within a few days, this turns into occasional silent treatments given by the narcissist. Especially, this is the stage when the narcissist has mixed emotions, behaving completely unpredictable.

As the narcissist once decides to break the relationship, the search for a new victim and new narcissistic supply begins. Often this stage is manipulated by the narcissist with regular silent treatments and blaming you for everything.

Finally, this all ends up with a sudden discard completely putting an end to the relationship. The narcissist goes no contact and blocks you an everything. In most cases, they don’t even do a proper breakup putting you in a total confusion and anticipation.

Another important thing to remember is, a narcissist can never bear to lose a narcissistic supply. Thus even though the narcissist discards and breaks the relationship, he/she tries to maintain the occasional contact thus keeping your hopes alive.

Attention:

You can clearly see the signals, how your narcissist partner is slowly ending the relationship…

If not, he who was so sweet in the beginning why is he turning colder and colder? Moreover, you can’t ignore the serious fact that Narcissists discard people all of a sudden and move to new relationships.

This is what we can consider as a clear pre-warning sign of an excruciating breakup.

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Lisa

How does a narcissist handle when they are totally dependent on you financially?

Liz
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Wat if your the one who has had enough with a narcissist., and all of a sudden just end it.. With no warning. . just walked away. Leaving the narcissists in total shock.?

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Jenn

I have a question? So the narcissist can go no contact as well?? But for us to break free from them we have to go no contact? Does that make us just as bad? Im so confused! Going through trying to make a move to leave and stay gone for good! Been with this man for almost 7 years iam a shell of what i used to be and have no idea how to start getting me back

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I left mine when he was out of town…Avoided all conflict and have NO Contact now. I’m a bird out of her cage!!

Donna
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Donna

Jenn, I can totally relate with your questions/post, having been with this man nearly nine years and several attempts to end it, including marrying and divorcing, but still simply coexisting, walking through life as a zombie, barely remembering what I once was as a person, in my prior (pre-narc) life. It’s sad and all the posts I read make it sound like it’s as easy as walking away when there are so many factors that need extinguishing that once again, “I”, and only me, will be the one left damaged even further, if I can ever find the energy to… Read more »

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Becky

They all go by one rule book and so as a survivor, we are left with 1 plan of action.. get out and no contact! Now co-parenting will not allow that and that’s my struggle right now. I wish he wasn’t a factor in my life because it does still hurt seeing him act as if he’s better without me.. but truth is, you are SO much better without him! The truth is he never loved me. It was fake and he used my good nature to feed his ego. Who wants to consistently feel not good enough? Without him… Read more »

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Gayle

I think the confusion over what makes a narcissist has to do with knowing exactly what that term means. A narcissist is self-centered, petulant and childish. They expect others to make them happy. They withhold affection and make you feel guilty and unworthy. Just because you finally get the courage to cut all ties suddenly doesn’t make you a narcissist when you have been on receiving end of abuse; it makes you a survivor. Narcissists have all kinds of ways they manipulate/control their partners. For example; “YOU don’t make ME happy”. I used to get that all the time. After… Read more »

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Jessa

I found this very helpful and it absolutely shed some light on what and why things continue to spiral out of control and then lighten up for s few days . But what shocked me was the video at the end is that part of your post or just an advertisement, from What I’ve learned through the physiology & my personal experiences is that the end goal is to get away from the abusive Narc Not try to tap into his soul urge , bc Ive tried just about every thing to convince myself I condo something to change the… Read more »