You are in that happy feeling of love..
You are happily enjoying the moments..
Suddenly an argument broke between you and your boyfriend.
It was growing bigger and bigger and ultimately ended up in a nasty way. That’s it, he immediately blocked you on all his social media account. He blocked you on WhatsApp, Instagram, and everything.
So, What does it mean when your boyfriend blocks you after a fight? What to actually do if he blocked you after an argument? How will you solve this deep emotional problem? And, How will you soothe him and make him unblock you again? See This sends a SHIVER up a man’s spine if he’s ignoring you
What does it mean when your boyfriend blocks you after a fight?
Whatever may be the situation, first of all, you need to always see the other side of the coin. Only then, you’ll be able to understand what your boyfriend wants and is actually expecting by blocking you.
I’ll tell you one of the interesting stories I found across forums..
She and I used to be very close friends. We used to talk regularly at college and even when we are at home.
It was the times when I was in dilemma whether to accept a job offer or not. Simply I was under tremendous pressure.
When the first time, she asked me ‘whether I’ll join the job or not’ , I simply replied that I am still thinking about that.
2 days passed by, and she came up with the same question, I somewhat irritably replied “No, I’ll not join the job”
A week passed by, It was a late night, and I was texting her on whatsapp. After a few minutes, she came up with a message, asking the same question again.
That’s it a big argument broke between us. Unable to handle the situation and my frustration, I blocked her number immediately. hmm.. Ofcourse it’s my mistake to have no clarity on my career.
So with this story, you could have understood one thing..
Whenever a man blocks you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he hates you or that he has lost interest in you. In most cases, if your boyfriend/partner blocks you, it just means that he is currently irritated and some disturbance is going on, in his head.
So when an argument starts between you and him, either to escape the situation or to just get some more attention from you, immediately his responses kick in. That’s it, this is what results in ultimately blocking you. See If he’s shutting you out, here’s what’s missing…
“What to Do If He Blocked Me After an Argument?”
Listen to me carefully.
Firstly, Whenever he blocks you, just remain calm and just don’t try to chase him again and again. Doing so just worsens the situation.
Before you do anything, try to figure out the facts initially.
When an argument happens, one of the three things might have happened
- You might have hurt his sensitive feelings thus making him sad (or)
- You might have hurt his ego thus making him angry (or)
- You are in no way responsible while he has some other pressures.
If you study a man’s mind, in most of the cases, if he blocks you then it could be only because of one of the above 3 reasons.
So make your path accordingly..
So, now I’ll give you the exact path you need to follow that heals both his sensitive feelings and his ego. At the same time keeping your self-respect high. Read He blocked me.. will he come back? 6 deadly signs to look out for
1. Healing his sensitive feelings:
Though men are expected to be stronger when compared to women (as per society norms), you need to understand that even men have sensitive feelings too. Though you may see them rarely cry, even men too suffer silently when their sensitive feelings are hurt.
So coming to the point..
If an argument happened, and if he had blocked you, chances are that your harsh words may have hit his feelings thus making him sad and heartbroken. So in such a case, this is what you need to do…
- First of all, take some time and let him heal himself.
- After an hour or so, Make a call from some other number and try apologizing to him honestly, for the things that hurt him badly.
- While his mind slowly starts healing up, Tell/show him that you care for him the most. Remember specializing effect can be so effective at this stage (i.e make him feel that he is more special than any other person in your life)
- Right now, don’t discuss the fight that happened, while talk softly showing him some love.
The better you do this, the faster he becomes normal and unblocks you.
2. Healing his ego while keeping up your self-respect high:
Remember, you need not apologize to anyone if there is no mistake on your part. Apologizing without your mistake just increases his ego and eventually creates a feeling (in his mind) that you are inferior to him. However, you can feel sorry for his hurt feelings, and convey your concern.
So all you need to do now is heal his ego while keeping your own standards high.
To be more clear, you need to simply convey one deeper message.
“I care for you and I miss you. You can unblock me whenever your ego subsides. I am not going to beg for that”
So here is what you need to do now..
- Call him once/twice (If he blocked your calls too, then try finding another alternative possible). If he doesn’t respond, you need to put up your patience here.
- Wait for a day or two. Chances are that his ego may have subsided by this time.
- Try contacting him again or Meet him directly if possible. Once he responds, begin with some caring statements which need to be added up with some guilt increasing words.
For example, you can say..
“You know I love you so much. I am being honest. I understand, that you may have some other pressures, but I am just feeling so bad for the way you are speaking nowadays.”
Such words subside his ego while making him see the other side of the coin, just like as you did. Thus he starts thinks about your feelings thus making him feel guilty for his harshness. So, the moment when his ego subsides and when he starts thinking about your feelings, he is sure to unblock you, no matter what. See How to “activate” his male ego to make winning your love an irresistible challenge.
3. A Man’s pressure needs to be understood:
Due to the man’s social upbringing, a man is put under tremendous pressure each day. Believe me, whatever may be the situation a man is put under a lot of stress. Society standards make men think that..
They must definitely succeed and support his family.
They must become independent before a certain age.
They should not cry or feel weak. etc etc.
Such standards, make many men feel alone and thus they don’t even share their feelings and pressures with everyone. So during such times, everything makes him feel inferior and angry. Unable to vent his emotions, he picks up an argument and starts tantrums.
Whenever an argument happens, you first need to understand a man’s situation and the pressures he is currently having in his life. So when you act accordingly, you can always keep the entire situation under your control. However, if you feel that your man is intentionally abusing you, It is in no way a good thought to continue the relationship anymore. Handle the fights in a relationship.. Not the Abuse.
So this is how you need to understand, respond, and handle when he blocks you after an argument.
Everything was fine in the beginning. But What’s happening now?
He who was so sweet in the beginning why is he turning colder and colder. Moreover, you can’t ignore the serious fact that He simply blocked your number just because of a simple argument.
This is what we can consider as a clear pre-warning sign of an excruciating breakup.
If you want to unlock his initial emotions such that you both will be deeply in love again. If you want to strongly make him feel like you are the most important person ever.
Here is what to do now..
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